We all desire a primary soulmate, who is the being who resonates with us at the highest level possible in all areas of our life. At our soul’s creation, we have our counterpart, which is similar to the yin/yang symbol. Plato called them split aparts. Many people call them twin flames. Primary soulmates have a purpose together. There is something they are meant to do jointly that they could do better by putting their energies together.
We also have secondary soulmates who are beings who resonate with us in most areas of our life BUT they need a little work. Those relationships can be turned into almost the equivalent of a primary soulmate relationship if they are worked on.
People have secondary soulmates for practice. You have about a half a dozen. They can be people you really resonate with either male or female. They always serve a purpose for being in your life. They also help point out areas in your relationship patterns that you can grow from. Secondary soulmates teach us how to set our boundaries.
Are you ready to allow yourself your primary soulmate? Most people are taught that they are not good enough so they settle. They stay in relationships that they KNEW wasn’t really what they needed and wanted. If there are red flags about someone in the beginning that doesn’t resonate with what you want in a soulmate, listen to your instincts. You can’t teach someone to be a butterfly if they are happy being a caterpillar. Everyone is on different levels of their path. Caterpillars have to learn to fly on their own. You can’t change anyone. Even after meeting your primary soulmate, your fears may come up. You need to decide whether or not you are going to let these stop you from living your life.
Are you ready to meet your primary soulmate? Are you clear about what your issues are? Are you willing for someone else to have their issues. Our spirit’s our constantly evolving. Nobody can fix your issues, you have to be able to grow and learn on your own. The more evolved you are when you meet your primary soulmate, the more evolved they will be. Allow yourself to have this person in your life. They are looking for you because of WHO YOU ARE. If you need to change to be with someone, then you are not who they are looking for.
Finding your primary soulmate doesn’t solve your problems, but it can help you learn your lessons that you are meant to learn in this life. They are your equals; your true partners. They call you on your stuff. If you are in a controlling relationship where one person controls the situation over another, it is not a primary soulmate relationship. Then you don’t respect that person totally. If you are looking for someone to make you happy, it is not going to work. Make yourself happy first. A real partnership takes inner strength.
To call your soulmate to you practice this exercise every night for seven nights. As you fall asleep at night our spirit’s go to the causal plane. By sending a message while on this plane, you reach other spirits faster. Repeat the following phrase (or similar) while you are falling asleep several times until you fall out. If you wake up in the middle of the night, start it again.
“I send my spirit out to meet my primary soulmate’s spirit. It is for our mutual highest good to have our spirits meet in physical body form now. I ask your spirit to communicate to your body, exactly where to be led to me. And I ask my spirit to communicate to my body exactly where to find you.”
Then get out there doing what you love and watch for that immediate soulmate connection. You will be drawn to each other like magnets, and sometimes all you see and feel is their eyes where their soul essence resides. Good luck! You deserve it.
Reverend MAGGIE BATT is a spiritual and holistic health consultant, intuitive, certified TriYoga®teacher, herbalist, Certified Advanced Kahuna ARCH® practitioner, Usui/Tibetan Reiki Master, and Certified Karuna Reiki® Master Teacher from the International Center for Reiki Training and a Mayan Shaman. She has been practicing and teaching her knowledge for twelve years.
You can find out more about Reverend Maggie Batt here: Wheelsoflight